Since we are here in MayasMind, I can give unsolicited advice. Here’s some now: Do not take yourself too seriously. Two reasons: No one else will ever take you as seriously as you do. This is bound to lead to negative feelings on your part because you will feel you aren’t getting your due, and on their part because they will feel that you are a self-important douche-bag. The second reason is simple. We as individuals are not that important. Our lives span a few decades, maybe a century, in the existence of a universe so vast as to be incomprehensible. 

 Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat and worry with laughter at your predicaments, thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution that is certain to come. Never take yourself too seriously. - Augustine “Og” Mandino II